Fun Achieved
Sunday was a true day of rest. Mary did do some linen laundry but for the most part we read and watched golf on TV. It was quiet after our family left.
Monday we awoke knowing this was the last leg of our journey-to St. Michael's Marina. Our docking space was going to be a tricky spot to get out of so with thought, Joe decided to back out a bit and turn the boat around. With ease we left for the fueling dock, pumped out and headed out into the Chesapeake Bay.
The day was hot and hazy. We were lucky again, as we have been with the Loop, that the Bay was calm as can be. The Cove Point Lighthouse was a nice site on our Port. Both of us were just commenting on the fact that we had not seen many crab pots when bang, there they were. We even got to see floats that we had never seen. Finally, for the first time in our Loop history, the terrain ahead was familiar. We remembered the harbor and the marina only on this trip, we were not afraid of where to go nor what to do. We have come so far!
What did we enjoy the most on the Loop? The people we met of course. They made the trip the wonderful adventure it became.
Where was our favorite stop(s)? Mary loved the Lake District in Canada, Charlevoix, Michigan, riding through Chicago and Hilton Head. Joe loved riding through Chicago, Hilton Head, Sackets Harbor, Tobermory, Canada and the Hudson River.
What was the most frightening moment? We did not like approaching NYC. The waves were the largest we encountered. But you always learn and we secured the galley and salon with care after that adventure.
What did you find the hardest to do?
Mary: Definitely handling the lines in the locks and lassoing pilings at docks that are not floating.
Joe: Docking with strong currents and keeping an eye out for crab pots.
What are you looking forward to on land? We can't wait to sleep in our own bed, have a car for transportation, not have to watch the weather constantly, use our own laundry room, have an oven and be able to cook what we want anytime, not have to bend into all sorts of positions to get things in and out of their storing places and being able to flush the toilet each and every time (boaters will get this!)
How many miles did you travel? We traveled 5,050 nautical miles which converts to 5,811 statute miles.
How many engine hours did you travel? We traveled about 700 hours.
What was the longest day you traveled in hours? We traveled from Bashi Creek Overflow, an anchorage, to Three Rivers, another anchorage, which took 10 1/2 hours. These are located in Alabama. On that day we traveled 74 nautical miles.
What was your shortest trip in hours? Our shortest trip was from St. Michaels MD to Kent Narrows, MD (Safe Harbor Narrows Point)-our first day- which took 1 hour.
What was the most Northern, Western, Southern and Eastern part of your trip?
For us, the Northern Channel in Canada was the most northern part of the trip. The most western was in Illinois on the Illinois River near the I-72 bridge. Our most southern part of the trip was Marathon Key, Florida and the most eastern was the Atlantic Ocean near Cape May, NJ.
How many days were you actually on the water? We were on the water for just over a year-376 days.
How many days did you travel? We were on the water 120 days, about a third of the year and average for a Looper.
How many friends did you make on the Loop? We collected cards from 110 boats, but also met boaters that were not part of the Loop and did not carry cards. Let's just say hundreds.
Would you go again? Yes, both of us would do this again as we would know more. It is not in our plans though.
Would you take anything that you did not on this trip? No one suggested we take the following, which we purchased on the move:
Wet vac: We needed one for cleaning the mud and muck out of sea strainers.
Mops: We added two different mops needed to wipe down the plastic glass at the helm when it had condensation.
Fenders: We began with four fenders but you really need 8 for a boat our size. You need to protect your boat in locks where you will be tightly tied up or even rafted to other boats.
Spliter: We need 50 amps of power docked but some marinas and docking stations only have 30 amps. A splitter allows you to get power in those situations, but you have to choose what is important to you to receive power.
What did you take that you didn't need?
We used everything we brought with the exception of pot protectors in the kitchen. Usually the ones you purchase that are stackable already have them. We also had some medications on board that we took and didn't use but we would take them again, just to be safe.
Where was your favorite Ice cream and Butter Tarts? We loved the ice cream in Pickton, Canada the best, though this is not a usual stop on the Loop. Butter Tarts were best in Orillia.
Did you ever get injured? Except for our original bad scratches, we were lucky and got through with nothing serious. We have meet Loopers with broken limbs, concussions, falls overboard, bike accidents, broken ribs, and the like.
Did you gain 100 pounds and are you alcoholics? No and no.
How many people viewed the Funintened Blog? We have had over 4,500 Funintended blog viewings and posted 54 blogs.
Did the bag you got at Liberty Landing in NYC become your favorite? Definitely. Mary loved that bag. It was blue and white stripped, had a zipper and was the perfect size to carry while shopping.
How much does doing the Loop cost? It depends on the cost of fuel, how many marinas you stay at, do you eat out a lot, do you drink a lot, cost of your boat repairs, how many times you need prop attention and mechanics, etc. When they say BOAT stands for "Bring Out Another Thousand," they are short changing it.
What are your plans now that the Loop is completed? We are going to take the next twelve months to decide what to do. We still have 4 crates of furniture from the sale of our home in Rockville to deal with. We haven't really lived in our home in Delaware for long, so we will do that now. We plan to golf, boat, knock off some bucket list items and enjoy each other, our friends and life for as long as we can.
Personal Thoughts:
Mary:
I must admit, I did not want to take this trip at all. I knew that I did not have the full knowledge to take off. It was scary, like jumping into French or Spanish in school at the highest level and not knowing the language. I did not have the language, skills, nor desire to do this. I only agreed because Joe wanted to take the trip.
The first six months were rough. In the beginning, when I heard a boat motor turn over, I got a knot in my stomach thinking "Here we go again. Can't we just stay docked!" Presently, I don't think twice about what I will find at a marina, lock, or when anchoring. I have it down and when I come to a situation I haven't met before, I know I will figure it out with Joe.
We have met such great people. Boaters are the "salt of the earth" for a reason. It is "all for one and one for all" out here. If you need help, all you have to do is ask. No one feels "better than thou" and whether the boat is your home, a temporary purchase for the Loop or a new beginning, we are all on the same playing field.
I am reluctant to get the "yoke of life" back on-the traffic, appointments, commitments, house problems, personality clashes, 2 1/2 hour rides each way twice a week to see my Mom, babysitting, holiday decorating and gift buying, cellphone messages, email, lunch dates, etc. You know the drill. We have not had that on the Loop and though things got tough at times, Joe and I knew where we were going and planned accordingly. Life has no map.
Joe and I have grown closer than ever, not that we weren't, and this trip has been like a honeymoon where you get to know each other really well all over again. As we traveled the miles, I was able to finally shed my career and get back to being me. I met new friends for life and learned to appreciate my old friends. I read a lot of really great books and got to sink my teeth into their words-relishing the author's intent.
I am the one who would go again in a heart beat. This time, I know what I'm doing, can see places that we weren't able to get to and meet the people we just met once again only in their home ports. I will miss many of them. It was fun, so much fun. I look forward to more fun times on the boat.
Joe:
There were three objectives I had: to be mentally challenged, to have physical activity, and a sense of adventure.
We both learned so much, so quickly that the first objective was more than met. Considering we didn't know a floating dock from a fixed dock or anything about the mechanical systems on the boat, we had to learn quickly and, for the most part, we did. There's still an awful lot we don't know, but I think we can now consider ourselves boaters. I'll admit, I still feel undeserving when called "captain."
We were physically tested in ways different from our normal activities. Our balance has improved, we used different muscles and we probably walked more than when we were landlubbers. However, we ate really well, had trouble keeping the liquor supplies up to snuff, and got pretty lazy when in port. Overall, I'd say the physical objective was meh.
It has been an adventure. We never felt in physical harm and neither of us got injured, but we saw much of this country's geography from a different viewpoint than an interstate highway. Traveling through Canada and meeting so many Canadians reminded me of how similar people are. Canada was beautiful, but so were the rivers through the western US part of the journey. We met folks from all over this country as well, avoiding talk about politics and religion.
Although it wasn't one of my objectives, Mary is right that the trip has brought the two of us closer together. I learned to trust her judgement more and question her less. She has become a reliable first mate, and a compasionate Admiral.
All that Mary has to say is "let's go again" and I'm all in.
Final Thoughts
Our adventure was fantastic but it was not unusual. Loopers know they are either watching or hearing about a "show" (mishap or adventure) or they are the "show." There are other Loopers who never boated and purchased a boat to do the Loop. There are couples who never knew one another and decided to Loop together. There are marriages on the Loop, engagements on the Loop, divorces as a result of the Loop, solo Loopers, sick Loopers, young Loopers, older Loopers... the Loop is life itself. Do not be afraid to try something new. Conquer your fears. You can do anything if you want to do it. The important thing is to have fun, intentional fun.
We want to thank those of you who have taken this trip with us by reading our blog. We hope you enjoyed it and that, perhaps, it has inspired you to take on something new.
May the intentional fun continue in all of our lives.
This is Funintended signing off.
Epilogue
Our first official day off of the loop was extremely windy with occasional rain. But then came Wednesday and weather took its worst turn yet. As we have learned, lines stretch when wet and retying the boat became an unwanted chore throughout the day. We kept moving fenders to try and not slam into the dock and pilings. The dreaded sound "boom" alerted us to the fact that we had to hustle and tighten lines once more. In the meantime, we were getting soaked and kept changing clothing after each trip-despite wearing rain gear. Additonally, the water line at the marina stopped providing water to the boat-allowing just a trickle to get through. We reported the fact to the marina and were happy to hear them say it was their problem and they were working on it. We didn't want to have to replace a water pump on board. Luckily it was fixed quickly and the issue was a water pipe that had broken at one of the marina restaurants.
Due to the weather, we didn't leave St. Michael's until Saturday, though Friday was our target date. That morning, our son and son-in law, who had not had a ride on Funintended, came to ride with us from St. Michael's to our home port. The leg to home port was a great ride though and we had a blast as we never had company doing a leg of the journey.
James and Joey on the boat!
While Joey took the helm, James perched on the bow, pointing out crab pots.
Finally we saw the Bay Bridge. We haven't traveled under it yet though, but we were home.
After we docked, we had lunch with the family and they helped load our cars for the trip home. As a surprise, a large poster of the Loop with pinpoints of our stops plus a boat picture and itinerary is in the works. What a wonderful way to remember America's Great Loop!
The trip ended as it started, quickly, with issues (weather in this case) and seeing family. As an aside, we have both been reading The Wager by David Grann, which is a tale of shipwreck, mutiny and murder. Did we say "shipwreck, mutiny and murder?"
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